Why we don’t do what we want to do

Have you ever been in a position where you were going to get what you wanted and somehow you sabotaged it?

Maybe you didn’t realize that you sabotaged it, but if you just sat back for a second and thought about it, you would admit that you did.

We don’t realize that we are doing it, but we do it.

Unconsciously we get nervous when the unfamiliar comes into our lives, and if we are used to things going wrong, then… when GOOD, HAPPY and SATISFYING shows up we say:  “Whoa! put the brakes on Bucko!!”

The video I am sharing with you is a Cawfee Tawk I did a few months ago with my Tidy Tutor Insiders. I thought I would share it with you.

It is about how we have trained the body to be the mind and how the body wants to survive more than anything and that is why when things become unfamiliar we want to run away screaming from it, even if what we are living with is not good for us, like sleeping too late to get your day started on the right foot, being overweight or even staying in an abusive relationship.

The body is so accustomed to the familiar it would rather stay in what was bad for us than move to what is better because it’s not smart enough to reason. It just wants survival… and if your surviving in a bad state it’s better than dying because of a change.

It isn’t unusual for us to want something but do completely the opposite of it.

All because we have allowed the body to be the ruler over us instead of our spirits.

I talk about how we can break the habit of sabotage and create a new way of doing things, I call it “Being Our Own Mommies”

I look forward to what you think about all that I talk about in this video, and I would love to hear what things you see that you would like to change despite your bodies efforts to sabotage it.


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Donna - Reply

Thank you for talking about this! Really helped me! Great message!


Praj - Reply

This is the kinda person I’ve always been. Almost there but ended up taking a detour from my goal and lost the Will to get back on track with my aims

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