Sometimes creating a Plan B isn’t the answer, sometimes it is…

I know the time of year is Christmas, and this video was done in
August, but sometimes a message needs to be repeated.

Are you dealing with a difficult existence with another person or
people in your life?

Sometimes we need to be happy anyway and make a plan B, sometimes
we can’t do that, and we need to change our situation.

Taking care of ourselves is not selfish. Please watch the video if
you are living in a way that is making you unhappy.

Much Love to you,

Kathy
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The Tidy Tutor

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textart - Reply

So this evening I decided to take the time to watch the video, even though I was regretting having to do a bit of business at the computer before heading into my workspace to continue stitching on current commissioned projects. Is it God (my Higher Power) that caused this? Thank you Kathy for your candid ‘conversation’. It touched me where I live. I too am within the Al-Anon community. I had become aware of how the chaos I found entering my environment had seeped into my very own life and I lost my systems, and even the awareness that I’d had very workable, organized systems for years. Oh, how I used to enjoy keeping my home and office organized. Gradually it seemed the other took over all my attention and consciousness, and I gave it up until I no longer saw my ‘way’ or the hope to regain clarity in my environment. Recently I’ve been recovering my own life, and although there are days such as you seem to be experiencing in this video, the next day is often better because I see a glimmer of light through that chaos. Thank you again for your posts and videos. Step by step.

    The Tidy Tutor - Reply

    Thank you so much for sharing a peice of your story, and thank you for being in my world.

    I hope I’m helping you get your order back into your life πŸ™‚ Yes… One step at a time xoxo

    The Tidy Tutor - Reply

    Thank you so much for sharing a peice of your story, and thank you for being in my world.

    I hope I’m helping you get your order back into your life πŸ™‚ Yes… One step at a time xo

jess33 - Reply

Thank you for sharing that kathy love the message and the senery so beautiful! Its so important that we try to find happiness in our lives and be grateful everyday for all the blessings we do have. When i left my alcoholic husband it took me a long time to embrace my plan b. Now most days i enjoy my life and i make the most of it! It takes a strong woman to leave and do what’s right for herself and children, but I’m doing it and with pride in myself!

    The Tidy Tutor - Reply

    Thank you so much for the comment Jess. God bless you. It’s funny that when we realize that life is made one
    decision at a time, if we could step out of the fear and into God’s love, we can see clearly to move forward.
    That is so much easier said than done, especially when our thinking has become skewed and when we don’t have
    the information we need to make the decision that is best for us.

Kathy Musca - Reply

Loving your wisdom on this.I had this tab open for months.This is just what I needed t o hear today.My higher power aka God is telling me to change what I can and be accepting of what I cannot change .We have adult children who have moved back home during Covid and they are not cleaning uo their mess plus a whole lot of mental health problems with our teen atm.zIts serious and stress is very high in our household.
So, thank you again Kathy Roberts for your common sense and real post curls n all.You are so real and that’s what I love about you.You are walking the walk and talking the talk.Gone back to Al -annon recently and I get it. πŸ‘πŸΎ

    Kathy Robers - Reply

    Thanks so much for the comment Kathy. So happy you are in my life. Keep me posted. Having family at home who are grown ups can be so challenging. Are you able to join me on our weekly free decluttering time together? https://go.thetidytutor.com/helpwithlove Here is all the info.

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