This video was actually done a few years ago while I was at Disney with a friend. I found it sitting in draft form on YouTube and decided to post it.
It was recorded during a time when all the ads on Facebook and Instagram were talking about living in a mess was because of trauma — and honestly it pissed me off. This is still what people think…
If we have a REASON why we can’t change, then we stay stuck. How can we achieve something different if the reason still exists?
We are not stuck until trauma is resolved. How sad would that be? The trauma of our past will always be there. But the mess does not have to be.
We can do whatever we desire, what we need, and what we want. Nothing from our past has the power to stop us. We can decide to choose ourselves.
In this video I talk about why I don’t believe trauma is the reason for clutter, and what actually makes the difference when it comes to changing your home and life.
Many people who struggle with clutter have spent years thinking something is wrong with them. They believe they are lazy, broken, or incapable of change.
I don’t believe that either. In fact I can say that t is not true.
The real issue is much simpler. We were never taught a system that actually works for the way we think and live. We simply don’t know how.
In the video I also talk about habits that quietly keep us stuck — things like saying yes to everyone, stopping what we’re doing every time someone calls, and living without a clear plan for the day.
One small change, like learning to check your calendar before committing to something, can completely change the pressure and chaos in life.
This video has very few views on YouTube right now, but it is such a needed message.
I hope you’ll watch it and leave a comment — here and on YouTube. I really want to hear what you think.
With LOVE!
The tidy Tutor
Kathy
PS
f you’d like access to some free resources, you can join my free Tidy Tutor community here:
https://www.skool.com/tidy-tutor-free-resources-6150/about
That space is where I keep free resources and it’s also where people access classes they’ve purchased.
If you want deeper help, live sessions, and a group working through this together, you can learn about the Inner Circle here: https://www.skool.com/thetidytutor/about
Inside the Inner Circle you’ll also get The Tidy Tutor Masterclass, which normally sells for $497 on its own, and is INCLUDED with the community.
I’d love to see you there.
